I love your new hair, although I loved your old hair too and your lipstick is badass. Weird reactions to your video though! You've got married blahblah, but you're still the same person and people shouldn't care cause you're still awesome and I'VE LOVED YOUR CHANNEL FOR SO LONG NOW AND I WOULD LIKE YOU TO KNOW THAT, so carry on being who you are obviously:3
your dark makeup in your new video makes you look like a fierce warrior woman in a post-apocalyptic world where the system is corrupt and you defeat them and then marry your male counterpart (this being jordan obvs)
Thanks. Love the red lipstick, makes me feel like a queen.
i saw divergent with several friends and i was basically the only one who didn't like it. i think they could have done a lot better with tris and tobias' relationship in general. the only thing i liked was when he said "fear doesn't shut you down" and stuff, but that seemed to me as the only scene where he truly acknowledged her unique reaction to fear. they also didn't talk at all about how the abnegation side in her made it so that her selflessness was an big part of her fearlessness.
Right! I was explaining it to Jordan that Tris and Tobias have a borderline unhealthy relationship in the series (I DID NOT SAY BAD/HURTFUL/ABUSIVE JUST UNHEALTHY) because a) Tris is kind of weird b) Tobias grew up with an abusive father c) He kinda like to “scare” Tris to “wake her up” d) neither of them are particularly stable people. To be fair, I don’t know how they could’ve elaborated this better. Maybe focused on Tris as she was in the book: very quiet, lethal when pushed too far, and very, VERY abnegation in her general attitude. This contributed a lot to where their relationship went.
(because you reblogged a Breaking Dawn thingy) My biggest problem with the Twilight series is the amount of wasted potential it had. Like, the Cullens all had REALLY COOL backstories, and we got a nice glimpse at what other vampires (particularly newborns) are like in the Bree Tanner novella, but there's NOT ENOUGH of it and TOO MUCH Bella. </opinion rant>
I disagree but opinions are opinions and well Bella is the main character
I feel like tumblr has changed my brain. As much as I love the interesting stuff you can find on here, I feel like I've become a person who can be offended at the drop of a hat, because tumblr has conditioned me that way. I don't like it and can't tell if I should delete my tumblr or just try and ignore it all. What do you think about all this? I've told a few friends and some agree that tumblr can be hurtful, but others don't.
I’m trying to ignore it all, personally. I consider the experience of Tumblr to be much like hiking through a patch of poison ivy. You try to shimmy your way through, just enjoy the hike, but every now and again you brush into a leaf…or a bush…
I've looked up to you for a long time, and now you're getting married and it's crazy because my entire family wants me to get a boyfriend, but I don't want one. Any advice? Do you think it's okay to not want a boyfriend even when you're 18?
I mean, IIIIII didn’t want one when I was 18. You can’t make yourself be in love. That’s not how it works. In my experience, when you’re not looking, you find what you need. Although, make sure to get out there and go on group dates and stuff just for funsies. Make memories. Also, free food!
Okay, so this is for you specifically because you one of the only bloggers on this site that I really respect. What is your take on all the anger on tumblr? I know this is my opinion, but I think that a lot of people on this site preach "social justice" by being spiteful and bitter and thinking they are doing others a favor. People complain about racism and sexism a lot, but it seems like this is all they focus on whenever they turn on the tv or open a book. What's your opinion?
I agree with you. It makes me kind of sad, and afraid for them. You’re going to have a very, very miserable life is you just sit there yelling at everything. It’s good to recognize the faults in things, but don’t let that keep you from recognizing the good, too.
i think you'd look really pretty with darker hair. not that you don't look pretty now. you're very pretty. idk.
I’ve had darker hair before and I really liked it! Trouble is, color is expensive and hard to maintain. And honestly, I really like my hair color now. There are a lot of natural shades. Although I’m thinking of tossing in a little streak of red, just for fun. (;
Not a question, just a general "You're amazing and basically the kind of girl I like to think I am on my really good days" appreciation note. :D Keep up the amazing work of being the clever, adorable, intelligent person you are. That's all. G'night. :)
Pick me ups like this keep me going some days. Thank you!
When you said that your parents got married (or was it engaged..?) after 3 days, what did you mean? Like were they dating for 3 days, but they had known each other for a while? Or did the meet and then 3 days later BAM marriage?
Okay, here’s the skinny. My dad was good friends with my mom’s brother. They hung out, so he sorta KNEW my mom, but she was just his little sister they never saw cuz they were always chillin elsewhere.
My dad moved away for a couple of years and then came back, re-met my mom (who was now a foxy 18 year old [sorry mom]) and then they dated 3 times and were engaged and then married I think within the month.